Urology Questions Men Avoid Asking (And the Answers)
The questions you Google at 2am instead of booking the appointment. Real answers, no lecture.
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Sexual Health
STIs, contraception, hormones, libido, urology and gynaecology basics — clear, evidence-informed.
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STI Reinfection in Long-Term Relationships: Why Chlamydia Keeps Coming Back
You both got treated. It came back. Most reinfection cases aren't what couples assume — they're about how treatment was done.
Why Sex Hurts: A Diagnostic Walk-Through for People Who Are Tired of Being Told It's Normal
Painful sex has causes, and most of them are treatable. This is the diagnostic walk-through nobody gave you the first time you brought it up
PCOS and Sex Drive: What's Actually Going On Down There
PCOS messes with libido — but not always the way you'd expect. Higher androgens, lower mood, body-image fatigue, all pulling in different di
Postpartum Bleeding: What's Normal, What's Not, and When to Call
Most postpartum bleeding follows a predictable pattern. The trick is knowing where 'normal' ends and 'call your midwife' begins.
Pelvic Organ Prolapse: An Honest Guide for People Who've Just Heard the Word
A bulge that wasn't there before. Heaviness by evening. Sex that feels different. What prolapse is, what it isn't, and what actually helps.
UTIs and Sex: Why They Happen, What Prevents Them
A burning UTI 24 hours after sex, again. The real causes, the prevention that works, and what to ask if it keeps happening.
Choosing the Right Pill: Combined vs Progestin-Only, And How to Tell
If you're choosing between a combined pill and a progestin-only one, the differences matter more than the brand. Here's how to actually pick
Egg and Sperm Freezing: What the Brochures Don't Tell You
Real success rates by age, real costs in SA, and the questions the marketing brochures don't lead with.
How Often Should You Get Tested for STIs? A Clear-Headed Guide
There's no one-size-fits-all schedule for STI testing. Here's how to think about it based on what your sex life actually looks like.
Why Am I So Tired After Sex? The Real Reason You're Knocked Out
Falling asleep after sex isn't laziness — it's chemistry. Here's what's actually going on, and when it's worth a closer look.
How Accurate Are Fertility Tracking Apps, Really?
The app says you ovulate on day 14. Your body, possibly, did not get the memo. A clinical look at what these apps can and can't do.
Hormonal IUDs and Libido: The Honest Picture (Not Just the Brochure)
Hormonal IUDs are the contraception that's quietly transformed millions of cycles. The libido conversation, though, deserves more honesty th
Low Libido on Antidepressants: Why It Happens and What Actually Helps
SSRIs save lives — and for many people, they also flatten desire, delay orgasm, or numb sensation. You're not broken; you're medicated.
Low Libido on Antidepressants: Why It Happens and What Actually Helps
SSRIs save lives — and for many people, they also flatten desire, delay orgasm, or numb sensation. You're not broken; you're medicated.
Low Libido: The Complete 2026 Guide to Getting Your Sex Drive Back
Low libido isn't a personal failing — it's a signal. Hormones, sleep, stress, medication, relationship dynamics: any of these can flatten de