Drugs, Alcohol, and the Capacity Question
When is intoxication too much for consent? The honest map of the in-between states most adults navigate, with practical guidance.
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Consent & Safety
Communication, boundaries, online safety, sextortion and digital privacy.
10 articles
Spiked Drinks and the Friend Protocol: A Night-Out Playbook
Drink spiking is more common than headlines suggest. Here's a workable friend protocol for catching it early and getting each other home saf
Consent in Long-Term Relationships: The Conversation Couples Skip
Long-term partners often default to assumed consent. The skill of maintaining real consent across years matters more than couples credit.
The Conversation Before the First Time (With a New Partner)
The pre-sex conversation with a new partner doesn't have to kill the mood. Here's what to actually discuss, and how to make it land warmly.
Choking, Consent, and the Thing That Looks Consensual but Isn't
Choking has become normalised faster than the consent conversation around it. Here is the version of that conversation that actually protect
Consent Education for Parents of Teens: The Conversations to Have
Your teen is getting their consent education from somewhere. Here are the short, specific conversations that hold up better than the big sit
Sextortion: Recognising It, Surviving It, Reporting It
Sextortion is the fastest-growing online sexual crime. The warning signs, what to do if it's happening to you, and where to go for help.
Group-Chat Screenshot Ethics: When Sharing Becomes a Violation
Forwarding a screenshot to the group chat feels harmless. Often it isn't. Here's the working line between gossip and a real violation.
Sexual Consent Beyond the Yes/No Binary
Real consent isn't a one-time yes-or-no. It's a continuous practice with specific skills. Here's the textured version.
Sexting Consent: The Conversation Before the Photo
Consent for sexting is a separate conversation from consent for sex. Here is the short, useful one to have before any photos move.